Milestones & Memories at Heaven's Door 

      Beautful Women Living Beautiful Lives Within Their Diagnosis



Milestones & Memories provides ceremonial and event officiant services with the tenor, tone, emotions and messages that are what you and your loved ones desire and deserve. We are committed to making your special ceremony everything you could hope for and more. 

Daphne Evans and Irv Spivak as dear friends worked together to assist couples to have an amazing memory. Irv, an officiant since 1997 and Daphne, an ordained minister and wedding officiant since 2009, Milestones & Memories truly respects and embraces all personal styles, preferences, beliefs and needs for your unique ceremony. When Irv suddenly passed away in 2016 from cancer, Daphne, also a multi-cancer warrior promised that she would continue the love. Proceeds goes towards Heaven's Door Foundation to help other cancer patients. 


From weddings and unions to funerals and memorials, even baby naming, parties, roasts, corporate and organizational events, and divorces - Rev. Daphne Evans of Milestones & Memories, in honor of Irv Spivak's memory and at his request continues the tradition to officiate any type of ceremony benefiting from a polished, professional and, when appropriate, humorous "Master of Ceremonies." No matter what your chosen venue, whether hotels, houses of worship, restaurants, homes or outdoors, Daphne officiates services suited for your loving memories. Need a Jewish ceremony? Milestones & Memories collaborates with friends experienced in the traditional Jewish vows. Ask about great San Francisco winter ceremonies!


Irv Spivak began Milestones & Memories in 1997. Irv and Daphne met in 2015 when he heard of her cancer bouts and having a national foundation to accommodate patients gratis. She was also an officiant whose money was used to assist these patients. They became fast dear hearts. Upon hearing of his own cancer diagnosis a year later, she visited his bedside and promised to maintain his passion. Irv had performed over 200 beautiful weddings. Daphne has wed celebrities and rock and roll royalty to the girl and boy next door.

Milestones & Memories also officiates Celebrations of Life, believing in celebrating the life of the dying or deceased first and foremost, and then offering guidance as to how best to move on for the living.

We also accept the challenge of unique and personalized Baby, Pet Celebrations of all kinds and have made some new friends along the way. 

M&M takes the time to understand your personal needs and desires in order to provide you with a customized, heartfelt and moving event. We evoke just the right balance between solemnity and humor, and take pride in keeping things short but memorable.

M&M specializes in culture/religious events to pay homage to both sides while reveling in their union and the possibilities this offers. We can take whatever ideas you may have and kick them up quite a few notches to the delight of your guests. This is truly a labor of love. Email us for a quote today! 
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